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Spearhead
It’s interesting that Roissy (or is it Citizen Renegade now?) should
state that Game has drawn him from love. Wasn’t that the point of engaging
in it?
Whether he knows it or not, it is a man’s capacity to love that is
being used ruthlessly against him. Men who love women become emotional
dependents on them. Men who love ‘their’ children become similarly
dependent. What our times has done is to encourage men to develop these
emotional dependencies, then exact a price by the threat of removal once
the man is hopelessly attached . It’s no different to a thug grabbing your
girlfriend, pointing a gun to her head and saying ‘do as I ask or she gets
it’. As soon as you say ‘Go ahead’, he’s lost his leverage.
You’ll notice woman aren’t threatened with the removal of their
husbands or children to anywhere near the same degree. Could that be
because even if threatened with the loss of them, she still mightn’t bend?
A recent release of statistics on suicide showed that the suicide rate for
men doubled immediately after the death of a wife. Guess what the suicide
rate rise for women was after the death of a husband? You ‘re right. There
isn’t one. Women are not as emotionally affected – loss of a husband is
probably no more intense than all the other emotional peaks in a woman’s
life. I don’t know how many widows I’ve seen going straight to the
question ‘but how will me and the kids get by?’ almost as soon as they
learn they no longer have a man to put up with.
Notice too the differing subjects men and women song-writers choose to
sing about. Men write most of the love-songs, and nearly all of the achy-breaky-cry-my-eyes-out-cos-she-left-me
junk.There is no female Roy Orbison. Women write about themselves, and how
they just gave their no-good other half his last chance (and he blew it).
They don’t cry about lost loves – they croon about the revenge they
exacted (as I wrote this, it occurred to me that Sinead O’Conner’s
“Nothing Compares To You” was pretty atypical for a woman. Sure enough, a
Google search shows that it was written by Prince).
Since you can’t threaten women with threats to their men, how do you
bend them to your will? Hint: it’s what they tend to sing about. You
appeal to their vanity and their desire for revenge on men.
The problem for men to get to grips with is that the yearning for love
they feel within is a weakness, and if they don’t conquer it that weakness
will be exploited. Horribly exploited. That same kind of love is not
reciprocated. It is cultured as bait. It is no more complex than the
instinct the moth has for flying into the candle flame.
Every salesman knows that the more you want something, the more you’ll
pay for it. As long as men want women too much, men will pay too much.
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